Friday, January 20, 2023

smart lessons for your child enjoying their first laptop

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It’s nice to see our children gaining independence at the right age, such as the first time they head to the store or go to the cinema with their friends, and without any adult supervision. As a parent you will worry about them ten times over, and that’s good, because you care.


It’s also good to make sure they adapt to other means of independence in the best way, such as when you buy them their first online device like a laptop or smartphone. In this post, we’ll discuss the former most of all, but most of these have similar functionalities and so many of the same points can apply.


Obviously, safety, online conduct and security are the most important markers to hit here. With that in mind, please consider the following advice: 


Teach Cybersecurity


When your kids get their first laptop, it's important to teach them about cybersecurity. This includes teaching them about creating strong passwords, not sharing personal information online, and being cautious when clicking on links from unknown sources. Additionally, you can teach them about safe browsing practices and the importance of keeping their computer and software updated to protect against viruses and other malware.


This guide that shows how to protect your email, as well as showing them how viruses can be downloaded via ensuring websites have security certificates when you visit them (this is the ‘lock icon’ at the top section of each browser”) will make a huge difference.


Encourage Online Safety


Online safety is absolutely crucial, now and always. To help them understand that, and how to ensure it, teach them about responsible social media usage and the importance of being kind and respectful to others online. Additionally, you can teach them about the risks of cyberbullying and how to handle any negative interactions they may encounter online, by reporting them, telling you, and limiting comments or setting appropriate privacy settings.


You can also:


Set Limits And Boundaries


When your kids get their first laptop, it's important to set limits and boundaries on their usage. This can include setting time limits on how long they can use the computer each day, as well as setting limits on the types of websites and apps they can access. Additionally, you can use parental control software to monitor and filter their online activity.


This will help you ensure that their online activity is properly monitored, and that they remain protected from bad sites such as those which present adult content, or those that allow them to access online chatrooms or apps which connect them to other people. It’s a horrible and unacceptable fact, but it’s not uncommon for those with poor intentions to seek out children online. This step helps completely stop that from happening, or allows you to cut any issues in the bud before they can begin.


It’s good to set some ground rules also - such as limiting their access to certain social media sites, or ensuring they have the correct privacy settings enabled for them.


Encourage Creativity And Learning


While it's important to set limits and boundaries on your kids' laptop usage, it's also important to encourage creativity and learning. This can include encouraging your kids to explore educational websites, apps, and games that can help them learn new skills and expand their knowledge. Additionally, you can encourage your kids to use their laptop for creative activities such as writing, drawing, and coding.


Now, let’s be honest, they might also care about reading celeb gossip, talking to their friends from school, and generally being a teenager watching YouTube. But it’s also good to help them use the laptop for more than this, for instance as a means by which they can edit their photography or even enjoying writing and video games that take thought. 


Teach Them Appropriate Laptop Care


When your children receive their first laptop, it's essential to teach them how to take good care of it. This includes instructing students on how to handle and store their laptop properly and stressing how crucial it is to keep it clean and in good condition. 


You can also emphasise to them the value of shielding their laptop from physical harm such drops, spills, and scratches. This will ensure that their laptop lasts for a very long time and teach them the importance of caring for the possessions they have. Perhaps with the gift you can also provide a carry case to make this easier.


With this advice, you’re sure to offer smart lessons for your child enjoying their first laptop, keeping them safe as the utmost priority.

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This post was written with Life According to Steph readers in mind

Monday, January 16, 2023

snippets of the weekend 1.16.2023

Friday was a tough day to get through, gray and my head was extremely congested. I finished Prince Harry's Spare and went to bed. 

Saturday I started a new book, then got my shit together to head to Center City for Jagged Little Pill at the Academy of Music with Amanda & Krissy. Heavy shit, funny too, good use of music. I loved the cast & show and cried a lot in the second half. I felt 18 and 45 and 80 all at once. We had dinner at Alice Pizza after, and then I was back home at 7:30 and out the door again at 8:45. Chickies & Pete's then the old Palace Roller Rink to celebrate Aubrey's birthday. There is still a subculture of amazing roller skaters out there rocking out regularly at adult skate and that makes me really happy. They were so good! Aubrey is a really good skater. It was fun to watch. We were back home around 1 and I was up reading until 2:10.
Sunday I finished a book, went to get a few groceries, made deviled eggs, made veggie and parsley heavy soup with the pork bone I brought back from Stephen & Aubrey's on New Year's Day, watched The Northman and the entire third season of Succession, and went to bed around midnight.



Happily I did not wake up when MFD came back from his Code Blue shift in the middle of the night. 

No day off here today. If you are off, enjoy, and remember Dr. King was not a series of prop quotes: he was a radical who was assassinated for his push for a revolution of values in this country. Leave the quotes in the pile and instead try embodying his fierce love and commitment to justice, equity, and peace along racial and class lines; his rejection of imperialism and materialism; and one a lot of people out there struggle with mightily in full view of others: his value of people over property.

If you've never read it or need a refresher, today is a good day to read Letter from a Birmingham Jail or the full transcript for his I Have a Dream speech.







Friday, January 13, 2023

Friday Files 1.13.2023

Second-hand decor updates. I like to move things around after Christmas is gone and add something new when needed. These second hand finds fit the bill and I'm thrilled that they're second hand. Mosaic glass forever. The mosaic glass lamp was my mother-in-law's, she loved it too.
Happy happy birthday to my sister-in-law Aubrey. I'm lucky to have one that I love as a person and love spending time with. We have fun!

How it started
How it ended. Always go.
Some small treasures from a walk this week.
Ben is Rose from Titanic: draw me like one of your French girls. Bruce is a trance chewer/kneader. The electric blanket brings all the animals to the yard
I had a cold this week, the first time I've been sick since 2019. I sneezed a lot, which I have never done with a cold in my life. I keep thinking of the Vicks Nyquil commercial the nighttime sniffling sneezing coughing aching stuffy head fever so you can rest medicine and how I always thought who sneezes when sick and MFD and I talked about how we never did and now we know and we do. MFD had the sneezes too. This is not the same immune system as pre-covid era. It isn't any fun. I've also spent the week looking - I can say this objectively - absolutely terrible. 10/10 do not recommend this cold season

I'm cooking straight out of the freezer and pantry right now, and the meals start out so nicely then deteriorate into like a freezer burned roll smeared with Worcestershire sauce or something. Not quite so bad but I do hate food waste so I need to burn through some stuff. 

Sometimes you make good nail combos and take clear pictures and sometimes you don't. 
Keenan Anderson. I'm not repeating shit said ad infinitum but that is not public safety and we are not killing people in the streets and calling it public safety. Black Lives Matter.

Just started. I know people are out there defending the Windsors like they are blood relations and raging against Harry and Meghan. I've got no skin in this game or big opinions, I just wanted to read it. 



I started painting our shore apartment this week - the space is so small with limited places to move things that I'm doing it piecemeal. Tuesday I did the shortest wall and trim around the window. If you know me you know I am not a neutrals person so the blah beige was really on my nerves over the past year. This is SW6736 jocular green. 

Hope you have a fabulous weekend, especially those of you with a three dayer for MLK on Monday. That is not me and has never been me.

Also say a prayer or light a flare that MFD finds a replacement for his totaled car in the next two days before I riot in the streets. We've been sharing a car since 12/16. You know I'm not a good sharer.







Thursday, January 12, 2023

13 ways to boost your child's academic potential

Boosting a child's academic potential begins with a positive and encouraging environment at home. As a parent or caregiver, you play a crucial role in supporting your child's education and helping them to achieve their full potential. There are many ways to help your child succeed academically, including providing a consistent and structured study environment, teaching good study habits, fostering a love of learning, and staying involved in their education. Additionally, providing access to resources like books and extracurricular activities can also help enhance your child's learning experiences. These and other strategies are discussed below, and you can leverage them for the best results


  1. Encourage the love of learning 


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Encourage your child to ask questions and explore the world around them. Show interest and provide them with various learning materials and opportunities. This includes field trips, educational games, toys, and age-appropriate books. For instance, if you have young children, you can get kindergarten books to introduce them to new topics. Also, you can set a good example by showing excitement and enthusiasm when reading together. This can include engaging in educational activities and being open and responsive to children's questions and ideas. Furthermore, making learning interactive and hands-on can also help children find joy in learning through cooking, arts and crafts, and outdoor exploration. Positive reinforcement and consistently praising children for their efforts rather than just their achievements can also help to build their confidence and love for learning.


  1. Set high expectations 


Let your child know that you believe in their ability to succeed academically and encourage them to set goals for themselves. Help them set specific, measurable, and achievable goals aligned with their interests and abilities. Provide your children with the support they need to meet their expectations, whether it's through extra help with homework or providing resources for a specific project. Be willing to help them adjust expectations if your child is struggling to meet them, and look for alternative ways to help them succeed. When your child meets those goals, provide positive reinforcement and acknowledge their accomplishments.


  1. Encourage a regular study schedule 


Help your child develop a consistent schedule and provide a quiet, organized place to study. This can include setting aside a specific time each day for homework and review and providing your child with a dedicated study space that is free from distractions. Break up studying into manageable chunks and plan what will be covered during each study session. Set a timer for the duration of the session, and have your child work on one task until the timer goes off. Urge your child with positive reinforcement when they stick to the study schedule. Also, be understanding and flexible if your child's schedule changes unexpectedly, but also stress the importance of making up missed study time.


  1. Provide support and guidance 


Open communication with your child is key; ensure they know they can come to you with any concerns or issues, especially with how things are going at school. Be available to help your child with homework and other school-related tasks and provide guidance when needed. This can include assisting with research projects, reviewing papers, and providing constructive feedback on their work. Also, help your child develop critical thinking skills by encouraging them to ask questions and explore new ideas.


  1. Use technology 


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Many educational apps and websites can help your child learn and practice various skills. This includes math and reading apps, educational videos, and interactive learning games. Digital books and e-readers can give your child access to a wider range of reading materials and make it easier to keep track of their reading progress. Also, technology such as video conferencing, online whiteboards, and online forums can help facilitate communication and collaboration between your child and teachers or classmates. Some schools use learning management system (LMS) platforms like Google Classroom or Blackboard. These can help your child stay organized and access learning materials remotely.


  1. Supplement your child's education 


Consider signing your child up for additional classes, such as music, art, sports, or extracurricular activities that can help them develop new skills and interests. These activities provide a way to explore different subjects more hands-on and engagingly and teach children time management and self-discipline. You can also consider hiring a tutor, taking classes together, or exploring local educational programs and resources such as museums and libraries. One approach is to provide them with additional educational resources, such as books, educational games, and websites that align with their interests and learning style.


  1. Designate time and space for reading


Reading is one of the best ways to improve vocabulary, comprehension, and concentration. Inspire your child to read daily, whether it be books, news, comics, etc. Help them find books aligned with their interests and abilities and make reading a regular part of their day. Children often learn by imitation, so make sure they see you reading regularly. You can also choose books your children will enjoy and let them pick their books from the library or bookstore. Designate a special place in your home for reading, and make it as comfortable as possible. Set aside time every day for reading and make it a non-negotiable part of their daily routine. Let your children know you're proud of their reading progress and reward them for it.


  1. Be an involved parent


Attend parent-teacher conferences, volunteer for events at your child's school, and stay informed about what's happening in your child's classroom. This can help you understand your child's strengths and weaknesses and provide you with valuable information on how to best support their learning. You can volunteer at school events and motivate your children to take an active interest in their education and explore their passions.


  1. Teach your child to embrace growth and failure


Teaching your child to embrace growth and failures helps them develop a consistent mindset, which is the belief that abilities can be developed through effort and learning. This way, they are more likely to approach challenges with a positive attitude and persist in the face of difficulties. This mindset can lead to better problem-solving skills and greater academic achievement. Also, preparing a child to embrace growth and failure helps them develop self-awareness and the ability to take risks and learn from their mistakes. No one can do it right all the time. This ability to reflect on their performance and progress can lead to better decision-making and learning.


  1.  Engage them in outdoor and physical activity 


Regular physical activity can improve a child's physical health by improving concentration, attention, and memory. This can make learning and retaining new information easier for your child. It can improve their mood and self-esteem, motivating them to learn and do well in school. Also, outdoor activities can help children develop important life skills, such as teamwork, leadership, and goal-setting, which can transfer to the classroom. Play is so important. Don't give it up because a schedule is too regimented.


  1. Involve them in community service and volunteer work


Through volunteer work and community service, children can learn and practice valuable skills such as teamwork, communication, and problem-solving. By working with your child on projects and initiatives that benefit your community, they can gain a deeper understanding of society's issues and challenges and valuable experience. It may expose them to new incidents, people, and perspectives they might not encounter otherwise. It can also be a great way for your child to build connections with other students, community members, and organizations that can benefit them in the future. 


  1.  Inspire your child to take on challenging tasks 


When children are presented with challenging tasks, they are forced to think critically, problem-solve, and learn to persist in the face of difficulty. This helps them build the confidence and resilience they need to succeed in school and beyond. Also, when they complete challenging tasks, they develop a sense of accomplishment and self-efficacy, which can further motivate them to take on additional challenges. Motivating your child to pursue interests and challenging tasks that are not always related to academics can also increase their creativity, ability to think outside the box, and ability to multitask. This will ensure they can tackle academic challenges at any time.


  1. A healthy and balanced diet is essential


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A balanced diet can boost a child's academic potential by providing the nutrients and energy needed for optimal physical and cognitive development. Children who eat a healthy diet are less likely to suffer from conditions such as iron-deficiency anemia, which can cause fatigue and poor concentration. They are more likely to maintain a healthy body weight, which can improve their physical health and well-being.


In conclusion, these are key strategies to boost your child's academic potential. It is important to remember that every child is unique and may have different needs and learning styles. By working with your child and their teachers, you can help them reach their full potential and achieve success in their academic pursuits. And these tips can help you obtain the desired results, so feel free to leverage them. 

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This post was written with the Life According to Steph audience in mind


Monday, January 9, 2023

Snippets of the weekend 1.9.2023

Barefoot Market before work. Family beach walk after work. Delightfully complicated skies. Wolf moon. Books on the couch.
Library holds pickup. Reading weekend: Finished Maame. Read Hide (Detective Harriet Foster #1) by Tracy Clark, The Writing Retreat by Julia Bartz, The Unlikely Pilgrimage of Harold Fry by Rachel Joyce, The Angel Maker by Alex North, and Signal Fires by Dani Shapiro; and started All That is Mine I Carry With Me by William Landay. 
A long beach walk Saturday in the South End, ripe with sea glass where I never find any. Sunday foaming hand soap making, flooring appointment for main house, tried Capo Strada Pizza (not for me), raw beach walk, trip to Sherwin Williams, internal struggle: must paint nails because it's time/they're chipped, must not paint nails because I'm painting a wall today. Some trip planning for the summer. Some thinking about what I want the next part of my life to look and feel like. 



Hygge weekend. Hope yours was good!






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