Monday, October 26, 2020

TWTW - the one with no productivity in sight

Friday I had to drive into my office in Philly to get a few things. More bodies in town, but nowhere near capacity. Given the cars on the streets but not so much in garages, I'd say the people are driving in vs. taking public transit. Not that same energy. I got home, picked up a few slices of pizza from Mario's, picked up books from the library, finished out the work day, and spent the night reading. 
Saturday started with a sign pick up against visible turbines down in the South End and an hour long walk on the beach with the best friends, shelling. They made a lot of friends because Bruce is a creep who stares people down until they come over and introduce themselves. Not my favorite thing.
I was hangry, so I made and horked down a salad when I got home, then I got a manicure and pedicure (used Essie spice it up on both nails and toes, which I never do), picked up some food from Boyar's, ate an early dinner, chilled on the porch, and read and lounged. I had a lot of things to do and did none of them. Saturday marked the fifth anniversary of closing on this old shore house
Sunday I continued to do the wants and not the shoulds, except Ben had a regular good boy check up at the vet - I feel bad sending them in alone but also relieved to not deal with him barking at other dogs LOL - then as promised took the best friends to a wet and windy dog beach for a romp. We helped a butterfly blowing around grab on to the goldenrod bushes and saw a cool piece of driftwood that looked a little like a fish. The rest of the day was spent finishing another book and starting another book, ordered Halloween supplies to individually package, and thinking about what I'm doing this week. It's a packed one. 

How was your weekend? 

Thursday, October 22, 2020

Thursday Thoughts - You can run but you cannot hide this is widely known

1. I don't know about you, but I sure would like to shed some dead ass shit dragging me this year of all years. Soon. Shall we?

2. This week has gotten away from me. Monday was five years long, and everything I had good intentions of doing and writing has fallen by the wayside. I've reached out and grabbed some shit on the fly, like returning insurance papers and feeding myself and dogs but that's about all I've mustered. And Lori celebrated her birthday Monday. And I saw an old friend Morgan who was around doing campaign stuff. Those were the best parts of the day. Oh! And I went to the post office Tuesday to mail a bunch of books and assorted other shit and returns. 

3. I also got the ancient baseboards in this old house replaced with more energy efficient ones. That work was scheduled but I would still like the points. Thank you. And I have intentions of going to the library today to pick up holds and tomorrow I drive into my office in Philly to pick up a few things which will undoubtedly feel like a zombie movie. I'm girding my loins for that. Between being within two weeks of the election, being back and forth between Philly and the shore, and life in corona land where shit keeps getting worse and people DGAF, I am in a weird fugue state this week and I am just trying to hang on until Friday night, using random AF to do lists along with a wing and a prayer to get through until then. 

4. Canine coworkers are not going to the company office. They have started demanding seats at the table and as a woman, I get it. 

5. Speaking of.

6. Can I not overstuff? No. I must. It's what's done. 

7. Signs signs everywhere is signs. I should film my face when I walk past the other signs. LOL. I walked past this house last night and thought, my people.
Then when I was looking through my camera roll pulling photos, I realized I identified with them because in Philly we are those people LOL. 

8. I am a bare feet in the earth type of person. I will be touching the sand in bare feet for as long as possible. It grounds me. I was happy to do that upon returning Tuesday night. The best friend dogs were happy too. I was going to bring the old dogs back, but they are serving as therapy dogs for campaign people working at our house and are in good hands with MFD's campaign manager. I think Bruce was happiest to be back. He did not do well with living in Campaign Headquarters. Neither did Ben. The energy is extremely different  - not bad different, just pace and activity-wise much different - than what they've gotten used to at the shore and they didn't react well. 
9. Reminder: 

10. Ecards...still editing documents at 8:30 on Wednesday night and writing this in between

How's your week going?

What appears after the hyphen in Thursday Thoughts posts is the song I'm listening to when I'm writing it - this week is Shower the People You Love by James Taylor. I'm not a huge James Taylor fan. 

Wednesday, October 21, 2020

Practical Yet Thoughtful Christmas Gifts to Get Your Family and Friends This Year

This is a guest post by Maggie Hammond. Proud mama to two little people, and has one too many furry friends. Passionate about alternative medicine, the great outdoors and animal welfare.
When it comes to buying Christmas gifts for your friends and family, the last thing that you want is to end up spending your money on something that the recipient is unlikely to use. Sadly, many of the gift ideas that we see today aren’t actually that useful and while they might be nice, there’s always the risk that the receiver isn’t going to benefit much from the gift you present them with - a common reason why many gifts are saved to repurpose for the next year or sold online. This year, COVID-19 has tightened the purse strings for many people, and there’s even more reason to invest in Christmas gifts that serve a practice purpose while being thoughtful too, of course. Here are some great gift ideas that anybody is sure to appreciate. 

Home Items
If you know somebody who has recently moved into a new home, or anyone who always appreciates new items for their home, then you really can’t go wrong with this Christmas gift idea. And with this Kohl’s shipping code allowing you to get free or discounted delivery when you order home items online, you can give your friends gifts that they’re going to love and find a lot of use for, like bed linen, soft furnishings, essential kitchen items, and more. 

Rather than getting the generic skincare sets that tend to come out every single Christmas, if you have a friend or relative that is committed to taking care of their skin, then find out what brand they use and get them some more. Anybody who follows a good skincare routine knows how expensive good toners, cleansers, exfoliators, and moisturizing creams can be - and many people like to stick with the same brands that they’re used to, so buying a product from the range they normally use is always better than one of the nicely packaged sets from the Christmas gift section. 

Everybody needs food and you can certainly find some creative and thoughtful ways to give food as a gift at Christmas. This is an especially good idea if you have a friend or relative that has been hard-hit by the pandemic and you know will struggle to enjoy a nice meal for the holidays this year. Arranging a hamper with some festive staples and other food items is a really thoughtful way to show that you care. 

Gift Cards and Vouchers
Finally, you can never be exactly sure what people really need in their lives when it comes to gifts, so it might be better to simply let them make their own purchases. Gift cards and vouchers for small, local shops help support local if you live close to the person you're giving to, and of course there are always the Target, Amazon, Best Buy, Bed Bath and Beyond, or Walmart options that you can never really go wrong with since they cover a wide range of different product ideas, whether your friend or relative needs to stock up on some essentials or treat themselves to something that they’ve been wanting for a while. 

With COVID-19 making huge changes to our lives right now, buying practical, useful yet thoughtful gifts for the holidays is the best way to put a smile on your loved ones’ faces. 


Monday, October 19, 2020

TWTW - the one with lots of outside time

Friday was rainy and cold, but it halted in time for us to get out for a while at lunch. I made chicken, rice, salmon, and green beans (not pictured) for the weekend. My dogs start crowding me when it's time to finish work. I cleaned my apartment, painted my nails (Zoya Annie), finished a book, and started another, which had me up until 1. 
Saturday started with a 6 am wakeup and an hour long walk and a lovely sunrise. 

After that I read with some coffee, showered, went to order doors for the house, picked something up for Michelle's sister, did some small business shopping, chowed down on a pretzel, hit the porch with the best friend dogs, took a long nap, then an hour walk for a glorious sunset. 
Sunday I slept in because it was Sunday and I do what I want. I packed up because I had to make an overnight trip to Philly. I also went to the vet because I thought Ben's checkup was this Sunday and it's really next Sunday. So we bought pumpkins and hit dog beach, then I came back into the belly of the beast AKA the campaign office. Which is my entire house at this point. MFD had a canvas launch with Andrew Yang and our Congressman and another local state rep, pics from his FB page, and I made a pot roast which I actually hate but never remember until I make it. Laundry out the wazoo and we watched Scream which is about the scariest I can go as far as movies go. 

PA friends, this is the last day to register to vote. If you are already registered, please check your registration. If you need help registering or checking your registration, please comment below or email me at

How was your weekend? 

Friday, October 16, 2020

Friday Five 10.16.2020

1. I try to tire the best friend dogs out at lunch every day so they don't disrupt my afternoon work flow.
2. I love this little decoration that is actually a TP hider Mrs. G dropped off along with a pumpkin and mask chain I am in desperate need of (do you need a mask chain? Check out my friend's shop The Green Room Accessories and Gifts). I missed actually seeing Mrs. G last night as I was out making my bi-monthly trip to Aldi which requires a drive but I plan to see her face before she leaves town tomorrow.
3. One of my favorite snacks: grape tomatoes.
4. The roasted pumpkin marshmallow Huntingdon Home Candle from Aldi is freaking amazing if you can get your hands on it.
5. If you're in the market for a bookish and Philly-ish sweatshirt, Harriett's Bookshop has this jawn but they have others as well. We just passed Prime Day. This is a reminder to support small businesses, and if they are both Black and Women-owned, even better. Amazon does not need most of us to survive. Small shops do. 

FINALLY. Pennsylvania friends, the deadline to register to vote is Monday. Even if you are already registered, please check your registration to make sure your name and address are correct and match what is on your ID. If you need help, please drop a comment or email me at

Happy Friday! What's on deck for you this weekend?

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