Showing posts with label Mae. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Mae. Show all posts

Friday, April 29, 2022

Dog stuff for people who want a dog but can't get one


Happy Friday everyone! Look at t he best friend dogs this morning, not working, sunning themselves while I toil away to earn money to keep them in the style in which they are accustomed. 

I was talking with a friend recently who really wants a dog but can't have one due to her rental agreement. That was us at one time, and then we moved to a place where we could get a dog (thanks Maria!) and got Gus. Then Geege. Then we owned our own home and could have as many as we wanted, which was at one time four and while I do not necessarily recommend that number, I do remember what it was like to really want a dog and not be able to get one. 

You might also be in that position - maybe you can't due to lease constraints, or you don't have the space, time, energy, money, physical ability, or mental capacity to care for a dog all the time. If any of those things apply by all means please DO NOT GET A DOG. It rarely works out well when people insist on getting a dog they can't look after. 

Even if having a dog isn't in the cards for you right now, it doesn't mean your life has to be dog-less. There are still plenty of ways you can have dogs in your life without actually owning a dog. 

Be a dog walker or a dog sitter
When you can't have a dog of your own, consider borrowing someone else's. If you have friends and relatives who have dogs,  they're grateful for someone to help look after them. You can volunteer to walk their dogs when they don't have time or to look after them when they're away. You might also have neighbors who could use the help. 

I'm looking for an in-home pet sitter for a week in June. I frequently need someone who can pop over and let the dogs out. People like me need people like you, and I prefer to use people I know or who know people I know. And in addition to getting to be around dogs, you get paid to do these things. Of course, you should have some experience with dogs before you start offering your services. But dogsitting is a great way to earn a little extra income while living your life and working your job if you have one.

Work with a shelter or rescue
Getting involved with a dog rescue or shelter is a great way to keep dogs in your life, and there are a lot of ways to do it. If you just want to do a small part to help a rescue, you could donate to or buy from an organization like Redemption Paws. It's a good option for showing your support and your love of dogs by wearing something that tells everyone how much you like them. You could also look for opportunities to volunteer with a rescue or shelter. If you're able to have a dog at home but not on a permanent basis, you could even consider fostering. There's so much need for donations of money and time. 

Dog Show! 
Mr. David Larry and Miss Colleen and Mr. Rocky Balboa and Mr. Bojangles (who knows this skit?) One of the most hilarious of all time
If you just want to be around dogs, you can find events that are centered around the four-legged, furry creatures. This could include competitions such as agility shows, as well as events that are just about dogs and their owners having fun. Sometimes these events might be held at dog-friendly places such as dog parks or beaches. Ocean City had a Doo Dah parade a few weekends ago, which is full of dachshunds. They also do a Howl-o-ween parade here. Look for events held in your local area to find fun things to attend that are usually free too, and full of so many people that showing up without a dog is a fine flex. 

It doesn't matter if you can't own a dog. There are still ways to keep dogs in your life.


 


Monday, January 10, 2022

TWTW - the first one entirely in 2022

Friday I made turkey rice veggie soup during the workday and topped it off with parsley and a hint of lemon. There is nothing like soup made from homemade stock - you get an amazing depth of flavor and there is less food waste. For this I used the Thanksgiving turkey that I stored in the freezer. After dinner I baked a cake to use up pantry items and read. I fell asleep on the couch, then walked dogs at 1 am and read until 4 am. MFD fell asleep on the couch upstairs. We are exciting people. 

Saturday After a sleep in, I had coffee and lounged and read before easing into the day with a shower and hydrating mask. Mae’s eye went haywire so I took her to the emergency vet. She has a deep corneal ulcer and we are doing drops every two hours around the clock until her re-check Thursday. Keep a good thought that it goes in the right direction please! I picked up a drive up order at Target on the way home and we took the best friend dogs out for a beach walk, leaving Mae with Billy as a babysitter, and had leftovers for dinner. I read another book at night and we watched The French Dispatch. 

Sunday I slept until 9 after being up much of the night for eye drops. I painted my nails (Essie merino cool and mochachino), set aside outside decor for MFD to take home, put chicken thighs in the crock with a jar of mustard garlic aoili something or other from Trader Joe's and lemon juice, picked up a bit up in the house, took the best friend dogs on a windy walk, had a fun plate for lunch and a lie down, and vegged much of the afternoon and evening with The Great British Baking Show. MFD left around 9 to do Code Blue overnight and for some work appointments this eek so it is just me and the animals until Thursday. 


I need more than two weekend days. 

The first Show Us Your Books of 2022 is tomorrow. 





Thursday, July 15, 2021

Thursday Thoughts - when I turn on my TV will you smile and wave at me

1. Hello from my mood ring dog

2. New TOMs shoes that I will put with the new TOMs I got last year and never wore. These were under $25 each and I've had my eye on them for a while. I do expect to possibly wear shoes again more regularly sometime this year.
3. On the menu this week: OPC delivered by Michelle Tuesday, chips for dinner because adults can make adult decisions, a quick sauce pasta dinner, making breakfast burritos to freeze. 
4. This week is a crunch between work deadlines, an abundance of property manager vacation rental owner work, and personal to dos. I am also a full time laundress. Launderess? Washerwoman? You pick. So eat, sleep, work, laundry pretty much sums up this week. Follow me for more Ways to Live in an Exciting Manner tips.

5. Reminder:

Short and sweet this week, unlike me. Happy happy birthday to my longtime friend Gena Ho!


What appears beyond the hyphen in Thursday Thoughts titles is what I'm listening to or most recently heard when I'm starting this - this week is Hollywood is Dead by Michael Buble





Thursday, October 3, 2019

Thursday Thoughts - Want a little grace but who's going to say a little grace for me?


Loving the fall skies. It's a great season in the sky.

Wishing I could be in many places at once all the time, but especially the next two weeks.

Hoping this weekend goes off without a hitch. I've got a lot of different moving parts.

Celebrating my niece's fourth birthday yesterday. I meant to write a whole blog post but got too busy. You'll not see her photo on here but she is the absolute best and being an aunt is one of my favorite things to be.

Spending a lot of time outside this week and it's been lovely except I'm glad it's not going to be 93 degrees again any time soon.

Anticipating delivery of my new oven tomorrow. If anything happens to thwart this, I'm going to lose my fucking mind and you'll hear it from wherever you are. Trust. 

Visiting Kristi, the best hairstylist around yesterday. 

Sending love to our friends Jenn & Steve and their kids and fam over the loss of Jenn's dad. 

Smiling when I saw my sister-in-law and mom both tagged me in this within an hour of each other.

Shaking my head over the insanity every fucking day. The authoritarianism and flagrant disregard for the constitution is one thing. Voting this cruelty into the office of the President of the United States is something we will never recover from.
Photographing sleeping dogs as always

Worrying about Mae. She's not doing well this week. I got her into the vet Tuesday night and she perked up enough to be nosy AF like usual but as of last night she was not back to normal. We think it's a bladder infection take two and that's what we're treating it as with antibiotics but we'll see.

Reading ....Not that much, which always feels weird but which I’ve come to expect for certain periods every year. I've read 136 books so far in 2019, and the last time that happened I experienced the same thing come September and spent most of a month barely reading like my brain needs a break in order to be able to absorb more. I'm taking that slow boat through novel land this week with the second Jane Doe - if you liked that one, there's another one out coming out in March 2020 (available now on Netgalley)! The fifth anniversary of Show Us Your Books is Tuesday. Are you joining us? There will be giveaways.

Listening to Unbelievers by Vampire Weekend (the part of the title of Thursday Thoughts after the hyphen is what's in my head or what I'm listening to when it's being written)


Reminding you to

Laughing at

What's new with you?





Linking up with Kristen


























Thursday, June 27, 2019

Thursday Thoughts - How does it feel when there's no destination that's too far and somewhere on the way you might find out who you are?

1. You know how your brain gets jammed up and things take longer to process/tasks take longer to complete and you know you need a break? That's me right now. Vacation is coming! Signs of that are always on the spare room bed.
2. "It's a road trip but we are going in super light," she says, after she places an Amazon order to ensure the proper coffee is there the first day and takes up most of a bag with books.

3. I got to see Melissa and Evil Stephanie #1 and Alex for dinner on Monday. I always enjoy meeting up with them when Stephanie is out on this coast. Fish tacos and service at National Mechanics were both great. Originally built in 1837 as Mechanics National Bank, the building is pretty cool too. Good pic as well except Melissa's GD eyes are closed.
4. Not a mug you'll be seeing in my mug collection.
5. Things that have kept me up at night this week, causing me to write my congress people close to midnight, Item A: people caring more about the word we use to describe the camps or the fact that other presidents had camps or how the children got here. These are fucking children. They need adequate food, water, beds, soap, diapers. If this was your kid, what would you want people to do on your behalf? This is not a political issue. This is a human issue. Children should not suffer because of the actions of adults. I have to think anyone with a heart believes that. Action: call your govt reps, donate to RAICES , and be be vocal about this because staying silent or neutral is choosing the side of the oppressor. I always did like Highlights and that is the gift of the year this year to support them.
6. Things that have kept me up at night this week, Item B: When They See Us. All hard, but episode four was just...fuck. And this happens, more than we'd like to admit. Action: examine yourself and the systems around you. Read White Fragility. Speak up when you see differential treatment under the law and everywhere.

7. The big todo in our house this week is a bladder infection. Poor Mae. One zillion dollars later, she is on a shit ton of antibiotics and still uncomfortable but back to growling at the other dogs and eating food and treats. Not an expense or a worry you want before vacation. I hope she's back to normal by the time we leave.

8. Co-signed. It's crazy unrealistic to expect happiness all the time yet there are happiness and positivity pushers out there and just stop with that. That’s not real life, it’s smothering people so they can’t express the reality of where they are, putting on a false happy while inside they stew and stagnate instead of having the space to grow through pain and adversity. I have a sign with "Sunshine all the time makes a desert" in my house so you know where I stand. 


9. Reminder: I love seeing street art from one of my favorites in the wild.

10. Ecards:

Thank you and good day. I SAID GOOD DAY.

What appears after the hyphen in Thursday Thoughts is a song lyric to whatever I'm listening to when I start to write the post. This week is Living in America by James Brown

Friday, October 6, 2017

Dates schmates

I'm having a real problem with dates. I've been telling everyone we got Mae in August 2014. It was actually the last weekend in August 2013. I'm also positive there's something I have to do on November 4 aside from the Pancreatic Cancer Walk but I have no fucking idea what it is. If it's something I'm supposed to do with you, please remind me. I am transitioning between calendars right now and things are awry.

Anyway back to Mae. Her birthday is today. This year. We don't know exactly how old she is or her exact birthday, so we usually celebrate it October 4, 5, or 6.

Mae's had a rough time. Her Geege died and she worked herself up into having ulcers all over her tongue and mouth so she went to the vet Monday and she's on three meds right now. Those combined with being able to bees mean to her puppy and then lay with him are helping to heal her. Happy birthday Mae doll!
Pennsylvania Women's Conference stuff next Wednesday? I hope? I couldn't get my poop in a pile for today.

Have a great weekend you guys! Tell me what you have planned.




More pug posts:
Meet Geege (Geege)



Thursday, June 8, 2017

Thursday Thoughts - things I want you to know this week

1. It's my Friday and I know, it's obnoxious to gloat that it's your Friday when it is not most of the world's Friday. So I say join me...take tomorrow off. The weather is supposed to be June-ish here and not April-ish like it was earlier this week. As you may have guessed, I'll be at the shore. This time it's with my girlfriends of over 25 years celebrating our collective 40ths. They're actually not my friends at this point and they haven't been in a long time. They're my framily. I will be pushing them to take 4792084 group photos because it's rare that we're all in the same place at the same time. There are a lot of years and miles between us.

2. Friends - I am hosting a KEEP Collective fundraiser for 350.org - an organization working in more than 180 countries to keep carbon in the ground, help build a low-carbon economy, and pressuring the government to limit emissions. If you'd like the link to peruse with no pressure to buy, it's in the comments below. If you'd like to be added to the FB group, please let me know. This photo is some of my favorite keep stuff - bracelets and charms shown here, interchangeable and you can essentially wear something new daily. They also have necklaces and keychains. 50% of commissions will be donated to 350.org. If you'd like to peruse, click here to shop my link.  A few of my personal totems from Keep: 

3. In other environmental news, I've weaned myself totally from plastic straws even with takeout iced coffee. I also bring a reusable cup and attempt to have it filled. Most places will fill it. It's such a habit to grab a straw, so it's taken me a while. 

4. The making and freezing of things continues. This week it was pork fried rice. I made extra rice so I could freeze some of that too. Take that, steam fresh bags of rice. 

5. For the second week in a row I'm stuck on male rompers and covfefe. I'm still laughing about these things.

6. Fake News hysteria must go. I'm resigned to completely cut people out of my life who think the New York Times and the Washington Post and anything that doesn't have a named source is fake news. Like, are you familiar with the free press and its function, and journalistic integrity and protecting sources? Do you know that Watergate was broken with an unnamed source? NYT and WaPo are solid sources of news. Learn the difference. Maybe also learn the difference between editorial pieces and reporting. Editorial pieces are like this blog here - my opinion backed up with whatever facts I want to give you. By all means, share that, but know that that's what it is at the end of the day. Maybe be a critical thinker and examine the sources you read and share - both liberal and conservative outlets participate in fake news/clickbait headlines and both liberal and conservative people share that shit out in the world because it plays into their confirmation bias. Also, maybe READ the article or piece before you share it - don't just share shit because you like the headline. It's ignorant regardless of how you vote. Get your shit together.

7. Comey testifies today. A primer on Obstruction of Justice.

8. I forgot that I had Mae scoping out the bay last Sunday. She was like the Queen of Sheba up there. She loves being elevated in any way so she can see it all. She's nosy AF and it makes me laugh. I want to film her at the shore and show it to you. She's insane.

9. Tuesday is Show Us Your Books with me & Jana!

10. This made me laugh as it is straight up truth for at least half of the people who rent from us at the shore - our apartment is on the ground floor, so we hear the cement shoes all the live long day.

11. E-card of the week. This is so me in all disputes: I always go right to setting shit on fire. Hide yo' belongings. Hide yo' matches.

What do you want me to know this week? 









Thursday, March 30, 2017

Thursday Thoughts - working for the weekend

1. Something I forgot: once we open the shore house, I frequently lay awake at night thinking of what I want to do there. This won't go on forever, after this year bigger projects will be few and far between and will entail more boring shit and less fun things. So Monday night at 12:30 a.m. I was looking at contact paper on Amazon and making lists on my phone. I want to turn my brain off, but not really, because it's fun...until I have to get up in the morning. Anyhoo we're fully rented for the summer and thus far it appears that no fruitloops are coming to stay with us. And this weekend I have lured Peters down to help me paint. God bless her.
2. I feel so much better mentally when the shore house is open. I feel like my best self there and knowing I can go there whenever is like a security blanket I am unbalanced without.

3. The best photo opp from the train on the Trenton line is when you cross the river going into the city. This is from yesterday.

4. Tomorrow is the last day of March, but don't worry, I'm extending this birthday month (keep your groans to yourself). Dinner with the family at the shore next weekend and a 40th weekend with my girlfriends at the shore in June are still on the horizon. I'm sure I can add some other things too. Every year for my birthday I buy myself sneakers. This year, it's athleisure shoes. I have a problem. The Taos Freedom sneakers are expensive as fuck but really supportive for the arches, which I need.
5. I switched out my wallet for the old birthday too. Pugs gone wild. I don't carry actual wallets anymore. I have a little card holder in here for my pertinent shit and some cash. The End.
6. In addition to Dolly, Dottie, Mae Doll, Stink Stank Stunk, and Hazel, Mae's newest nickname is Junk Yard Dog. MFD has lost about six headphones in the past six months. She keeps getting them even though they're not just laying around. She eats them like a rabid junkyard dog and then goes to sleep like a people.
7. Everyone who touches the investigation into this administration's ties to Russia comes out covered in shit - looking at you today, Devin Nunes. It is time for an independent investigation into the administrations ties to Russia. If we could investigate Benghazi more than seven times and spend over $40 million for an independent investigation into Whitewater, we sure as shit can get it together to demand an independent investigation concerning the possibility of collusion with a foreign government. Country over party and every single one of us should be screaming for everything else to grind to a halt until this is done. This is NOT business as usual. Confused about the entire Trump Russia thing? Here's an exhaustive timeline from Mother Jones.

8. Grouch of the day: I miss not hearing phone conversations all around me all the time. On the street, on the train, in the grocery store, etc. I hate talking on the phone. I hate hearing other people talk on the phone even more.

9. Reminder:
10. E-card of the week: 

Fin. 

Linking up with Kristin & Joey 


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