tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4071987159907366396.post4219816541673939437..comments2024-03-22T04:01:14.613-04:00Comments on Life According to Steph: I don't define you by thatSMD @ lifeaccordingtostephhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09884611147965544589noreply@blogger.comBlogger29125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4071987159907366396.post-44070596657377850652017-02-27T13:30:39.108-05:002017-02-27T13:30:39.108-05:00i am extremely behind, so just reading this. love ...i am extremely behind, so just reading this. love it! agree with everything. i hate talking about work. i don't find anyone's career interesting enough to talk about outside of work, unless they are super passionate about it or something. or they work at a bookstore. speaking of, yes i absolutely define (judge) people by whether they read for pleasure or not. i *know* we are all different and some people might look at me and be like how/why does she read so much? but to not read AT ALL? i just don't get it. my baby bro has ADHD LD and he's dyslexic. He is 29 and has the reading capabilities of like an 8 year old. But he still reads. It takes him like a year to get through a book but he does it :) anyway. went a little off subject there haha.Kristen @ See You In A Porridgehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09592108031437491276noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4071987159907366396.post-83758616730201753952017-01-17T11:41:31.809-05:002017-01-17T11:41:31.809-05:00Yes, yes, and yes. I am curious about people's...Yes, yes, and yes. I am curious about people's jobs though. I don't judge them, I just generally wonder about all the jobs out there. I especially want to know more if it's something they're passionate about. I know I'm not suppose to, but I judge people if they don't read and I do define people by how they treat strangers and if they have good manners. Chttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17987539776935412156noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4071987159907366396.post-9475394070061661982017-01-16T20:35:55.480-05:002017-01-16T20:35:55.480-05:00Love this post and what a cool & creative conc...Love this post and what a cool & creative concept :) I'm the same; I care more about the content of your character and who you truly are as a person rather than other factors that mean nothing.Ali Arnonehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15481407457549302387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4071987159907366396.post-6364315641203720882017-01-16T09:27:23.186-05:002017-01-16T09:27:23.186-05:00Thanks Katie!Thanks Katie!SMD @ lifeaccordingtostephhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09884611147965544589noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4071987159907366396.post-71943467826933422342017-01-15T22:15:57.981-05:002017-01-15T22:15:57.981-05:00Beautiful post! I do think it's important for ...Beautiful post! I do think it's important for people to believe in equality for all, and if you don't, then you lose some points in my eyes. I definitely do not judge people by their job, the people are connected to, how much money they have, etc. Pretty much everything you said. These are not the important things.<br /><br />-LaurenShooting Stars Maghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16074581473656321052noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4071987159907366396.post-82561087322231255452017-01-14T14:12:58.162-05:002017-01-14T14:12:58.162-05:00Love this post! Sense of humor and their energy ar...Love this post! Sense of humor and their energy are the first things I notice about people! Kimmihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00410492611956836803noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4071987159907366396.post-37378541402091264212017-01-13T20:06:04.467-05:002017-01-13T20:06:04.467-05:00I judge people (define people?) by their sense of ...I judge people (define people?) by their sense of humor. And how they treat animals and staff (waiters, cashiers, etc).Kristinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12075708535155080258noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4071987159907366396.post-42846809011359809202017-01-13T15:54:12.031-05:002017-01-13T15:54:12.031-05:00-by how they treat animals and nature and the hand...-by how they treat animals and nature and the handicapped and the poor (in no particular order)<br />-by how they feel about music (in general, not their preferences in genre)<br />-by their sense of humor (sadly I DO tend to qualify that by how they respond to MY sense of humor. not proud of that.)<br /><br />to name a few<br /> Three of Cupshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07504198212822541481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4071987159907366396.post-40295495749173474902017-01-13T12:47:52.459-05:002017-01-13T12:47:52.459-05:00I used to judge myself by my profession and when I...I used to judge myself by my profession and when I got laid off during the Great Recession, I felt strange. Like who am I now that I'm not ... even though what I was profession-wise wasn't who I really wanted to be. It was a weird time and I honestly don't care what people do, although I am fascinated and interested in those who have a ton of passion for what they do, whatever it may be. I agree wholeheartedly with everything you said, especially this "I'm more interested in what color your soul is". That has become more and more important to me. Tanya @ A Mindful Migrationhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12662395965850097235noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4071987159907366396.post-35180564725943445312017-01-13T12:08:41.700-05:002017-01-13T12:08:41.700-05:00I so agree that the color of someone's soul is...I so agree that the color of someone's soul is more important than their job title or bottom line. Things like relationship status, job status, etc. change, but rarely do the things you mentioned in the second half change—and those are the things that make a person their own person. Being "good" has so little to do with whether or not you're married, employed by your dream company. And for the job thing, I 100% agree. It's rare—but GREAT for them!—when a person's job aligns with their character or personality. But unless they offer what they do for a living as a conversation topic, I rarely consider it a topic for discussion.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4071987159907366396.post-41438764734338196612017-01-13T11:57:01.140-05:002017-01-13T11:57:01.140-05:00Love this and how real and true you are!Love this and how real and true you are!Jennhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11330910749491673996noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4071987159907366396.post-83091895605380984522017-01-13T11:54:19.406-05:002017-01-13T11:54:19.406-05:00I don't define people by what they do but as s...I don't define people by what they do but as someone who comes from a job that people think is usually pretty interesting I do like to ask. At least in my world for the most part people's jobs are usually their passions so it can be a good way to get to know people.Betsyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10054147905216792892noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4071987159907366396.post-85568845773396389032017-01-13T11:07:58.540-05:002017-01-13T11:07:58.540-05:00I have a tendency to judge others based on the way...I have a tendency to judge others based on the way they interact with others be in the cashier at the grocery store or the telemarketer on the phone interrupting supper. I don't judge people by their education, just because they have an expensive piece of paper doesn't mean a darn thing in terms of their intelligence. I think that says much more about a person than anything they they claim to be or not be. I don't deal well with whiners either, growing up whining was not tolerated in the least and it shocks me how many people my age are total whiners about absolutely anything. Donnahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12541856005561008886noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4071987159907366396.post-12668534414292342452017-01-13T11:06:28.034-05:002017-01-13T11:06:28.034-05:00This is a great post.This is a great post.Katiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02762459132494185766noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4071987159907366396.post-27057194570723491512017-01-13T10:13:24.074-05:002017-01-13T10:13:24.074-05:00Kinda crazy what others DO judge others on... it c...Kinda crazy what others DO judge others on... it can be shocking in some cases.<br />I'll judge people on how they treat animals too. That says a lot about a characterRebecca Johttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03965781380511208862noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4071987159907366396.post-76441911758041587002017-01-13T10:01:34.681-05:002017-01-13T10:01:34.681-05:00I can't stop laughing at the Smoke Monster. HA...I can't stop laughing at the Smoke Monster. HAHAAHHAHAHAHA. Sorry - I mean the rest of the post is spot on but the damn Smoke Monster is so stinking funny.Aprilhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11274306444310696264noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4071987159907366396.post-2585319042904786122017-01-13T09:59:09.417-05:002017-01-13T09:59:09.417-05:00Very well said! I could care less what people do f...Very well said! I could care less what people do for the most part, snoozers. And like you, I'll always take note if someone is a reader or if they engage in attention-seeking behavior. That just mentally exhausts me. Had to cut ties a few years ago with an old high school friend b/c her antics left me so drained, life is too short. Sukihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04918526245677759506noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4071987159907366396.post-68595601021087347052017-01-13T09:54:33.871-05:002017-01-13T09:54:33.871-05:00I dont care about any of that - as long as they ar...I dont care about any of that - as long as they are kind and good people, that's all that matters to me.Kathy@MoreCoffeeLessTalkyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11044005966979731361noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4071987159907366396.post-2804519482255231562017-01-13T09:52:50.955-05:002017-01-13T09:52:50.955-05:00I actually do sometimes define people by their rel...I actually do sometimes define people by their relation to others - not in the family relation way that you said, because yes everyone is their own person, but by the company they keep. You are the people you spend the most time with so if you're best buddies with someone I find questionable, I'll likely find you questionable too. Even if you haven't done anything yourself.Stephaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11422365462021152556noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4071987159907366396.post-11047642133295767582017-01-13T09:50:53.175-05:002017-01-13T09:50:53.175-05:00I 100% agree! My biggest thing in the last few yea...I 100% agree! My biggest thing in the last few years has been,"I don't define myself by what I do between 9-5. I'm more than that."<br /><br />www.justmurrayed.comAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17436491708192875626noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4071987159907366396.post-87846806297679042702017-01-13T09:23:51.304-05:002017-01-13T09:23:51.304-05:00I'm probably in the minority, but I don't ...I'm probably in the minority, but I don't hate the where do you work/what do you do classifier. I think it can be a pretty good springboard for small talk (which really, is the only time you're asked about your job. My non-work friends never ask me about work) and can let you empathize or ask questions or do something beyond talk about the weather. That said, my husband hates it since his job has nothing to do with what he enjoys and is hard to explain, so I never ask it unless it's asked of me first.<br /><br />I like the way you define people. I hate that they are so hard to figure out in the first few minutes of getting to know someone!Laurenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01625993635674294934noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4071987159907366396.post-12279022404438322532017-01-13T09:14:02.264-05:002017-01-13T09:14:02.264-05:00Yep. I agree completely :)
I have a post similar ...Yep. I agree completely :) <br />I have a post similar to this in the wings, but I love your list of things you don't define others by! Audrey Louisehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01593561585985740053noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4071987159907366396.post-48560388055304909452017-01-13T08:30:41.450-05:002017-01-13T08:30:41.450-05:00Goooooodness I wish everyone could be like this. I...Goooooodness I wish everyone could be like this. I hate that "where do you work?" is always the start to any conversation and you're just defined from that point on by your answer.The Girl who Loved to Writehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11069853342158261301noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4071987159907366396.post-1795103010424728022017-01-13T07:59:17.801-05:002017-01-13T07:59:17.801-05:00Agree on all! I love people who are concerned for ...Agree on all! I love people who are concerned for the welfare of all and not only themselves. How people care about and treat children and animals is very important! They are not possessions, they are gifts! <br />Happy and safe and sound all the way around weekend to all. Love. ❤️ your. Momma. 💖✨😇🦄☮❣️❣️❣️❣️Linda Sheridanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03719274719027029150noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4071987159907366396.post-14497975688699819902017-01-13T07:17:30.482-05:002017-01-13T07:17:30.482-05:00This is wonderful! I wish everyone felt this way a...This is wonderful! I wish everyone felt this way about others. I am innately curious about people's work because it's something I studied in school, so it does often come up in conversation, but I definitely don't think it defines a person. Heather @ The Maritime Readerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14334570091224362628noreply@blogger.com